Disbelief & Finding My Way Home: Part 2


During my first month of college, I met a Christ-follower who invited me to a Baptist church in Orlando. After visiting, my notion of church was completely overturned. Later, my friend invited me to meet at a Starbucks, where he asked me if I wanted a relationship with Jesus. I was hesitant because I didn’t completely understand what a relationship with Jesus looked like, but, I acquiesced because I had grown more curious, and I was coming to an understanding that God had not allowed my suffering because He was bad, but because there was a purpose to the suffering.


Growing up, my family didn’t pray for anything other than our dinner, and I never really understood who we were praying to, or what for. Saying grace was simply a ritual, like brushing my teeth before bed. That was the main difference between the anonymous God that I was raised with, and the personal, intimate Jesus I found in Florida through my friend. I had never known Jesus, personally. But with my new experiences in Florida, I was beginning to see beyond the religiosity —the rules and rituals—but a man with morals, humility, integrity, and Lordship. And it wasn’t the Lordship of Christ that drew my interest in Him as much as His humanity.


Faith came gradually, through conversations, Bible studies; prayer, and time spent coming to understand the depth of the Bible, and its multiple layers of context. I had never known there were “translations” of the Bible, or that certain translations made the reading of the Bible easier to follow—without changing or compromising the integrity of its divinity. When my friend helped me find a Bible version more suitable for me, he explained what we read together based on Bible studies he’d had with spiritual mentors. His breakdowns were insightful. Sometimes he even brought humor into our studies, which made me appreciate the Bible more. Those studies helped me see how Jesus had moved in my friend’s heart; how his faith, coupled with his personal relationship with Christ, had given him the ability to convey the message of the Bible in a way that helped bring me closer to Jesus. I was beginning to see how the message of the Bible that I thought I knew as an unbeliever was either based on distortions, or misplaced assumptions.


As mentioned in Part 1, I resorted to lust when I failed to find appropriate closure for my emotional pain. When I learned about Jesus’s integrity— which was founded on His relationship to His Father— I felt inspired. This helped me understand that my dependance on the acceptance of others was unnecessary, and that my pursuit of romance with women was sourced from infatuation—not from a healthy, biblical desire to love them Biblically. I had wrongly viewed relationships to women as the solution to my problems. With Jesus, I learned faith, and the support of safe people, are the healthiest, most natural sources of closure on the most appropriate path through emotional pain. 


When I first brought up my new faith to my dad, he too had found Christianity from another church in Michigan. I was pleasantly surprised, because for the first time in my entire life, we related to something meaningful. For the longest time, my dad and I rarely spoke more than once every few months. But that changed to once every couple weeks during my transition to Christian faith. 


While growing up, I had looked up to my mom like a god because she was an authoritarian; strict, knowledgeable, always having answers to questions—whether complex or simple. When I found Christ, I realized how powerless my mom really was. Her more obvious emotional shifts in my teens became crystal clear to me. I came to understand her from a more mature perspective in alignment with faith, and a weight was finally lifted off my shoulders. I prayed that God would lift the weight off of her shoulders as well. My faith has enabled me to see my mom in a healthier way, loving her where she is in every aspect of her life, rather than feeling tormented by our differences, or feeling afraid of losing her through trauma.

I pray for Him to soften her heart, and to help her intimately experience His grace, and to not get caught in the web of further distortions or misconceptions. 


The pain that led to my suicidal thoughts years ago has been replaced with my relationship with Jesus. Jesus is real to me because I’ve experienced Him in my spirit, where I continue to pursue faith in Him. I understand faith to be a continual, day-by-day journey. I believe His love was pouring into my heart when I tried to kill myself, and that His hand was what drew me from the water. I believe He didn’t want to lose me to suicide, and that He doesn’t want to lose me now. I also believe my parents’ divorce was His way of influencing me to take faith seriously, to find Him in a way that wasn’t merely “following the crowd,” but rather, choosing an intentional relationship with Him.


Being a Christian doesn’t make a person perfect, and it doesn’t enable a person to know everything about life and its troubles. To me, being a Christian means putting relationship with Jesus first, and seeking Him whenever we fall short. Christians are sinners who recognize they are sinners, acknowledge their need for a Savior, and receive God’s grace by entering into relationship with His Son.


Jesus’ grace sounds like this: “You’ve sinned, and it requires a debt. But because I love you, I’ve taken your punishment upon myself and paid, with my life, the debt you owed. Now, you don’t have to worry about paying your debt. Go and love others, living with the joy of knowing you are free.” When we receive His grace, we live differently. That is how Christianity functions when a person comes to faith: We readily receive His grace when we recognize how we, otherwise, live under an umbrella of shame in our sinfulness (imperfections); whereas under grace, we live under the freedom of forgiveness, and the invitation to lean on Jesus’ unending, undivided, unconditional love. When we feel truly loved, we are no longer imprisoned to live feeling unworthy of joy.


I hope and pray that by reading my testimony, you feel encouraged to open yourself to Jesus and experiencing the fullness of relationship with Him. Truly, faith in Jesus changes everything from the inside out: Our perspective of pain, our view of purpose in life, the meaning of everything large and small, and not needing to have all the answers.

After all that I’ve been through, Jesus words, “I am making all things new,” makes so much more sense to me. He made me new, starting at a soul level by giving me a purpose (writing). He made my relationship with my father new by connecting us through our faith, and He made my relationship with my mom new by clarifying that only He is God. He even renewed my desire for closure by helping me understand what is most important is relationship with Him. I cannot imagine my life now without Jesus. Without a doubt:

Trust Him, listen to him, love him, choose Him, and continually pray (speak) to Him. He will never forsake you.


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11 thoughts on “Disbelief & Finding My Way Home: Part 2

  1. Really enjoyed Part 2! Made me wish there was Part 3! One of my favorite parts was about you and your Dad finding faith in Jesus so close to the same time. That was really cool.

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    1. Your words are much appreciated! I could easily write a Part 3, but it would probably have to be a separate story from my testimony. But what I would like to do moving forward now is to elaborate on how God moves in my life and in the lives of people I come into contact with, so the world can see more of what He can and does do–my testimony as a very personal example. I’m really glad you took something from the way the Lord has impacted my relationship with my dad. I’m very grateful for what has happened there, and moved that Jesus moved on by dad’s behalf in such a place and time. Thank you for reading this!

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    1. Thank you for reading and for your words! It’s wonderful to meet you as well :). I’m so glad that you were able to connect to my story in some way. I’m humbled by sharing my faith and testimony with anyone who will listen to it. God bless you!


  2. Lance – Hallelujah – I am so glad that God makes ALL things new -! and that He makes beautiful things out of us… and that He is restoring relationships with you and others – Thanks for linking up with #TuneInThursday last week. Hope to see you tomorrow too.

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